Engyenderwaho yokutandika ekiganiiro nomukundwa wawe ahabyetaago byanyu:

Engyenderwaho yokutandika ekiganiiro nomukundwa wawe ahabyetaago byanyu:

1. Mugire obwire bwokuganira ahabyetaago byanyu;

Ahabwemirimo mingi nokuteganisibwa, nimubasa kwebwa ahabyobushwere bwanyu. Mbwenu mugireho obwire bwokugamba ahari rukundo yanyu kandi mweherere, muronde omwanya ogucureire rero muganire.

2. Okuganira oku mukutware kuba kikuru;

Otahurutuka aho okagira omukundwa wawe oti ninyenda kuganira neiwe eshaha egi. Kwonka kimumanyise ingu nikikuru ahabwanyu mwembi kushutama mukaganira.

Otagira enshonga ezindi eziwaretamu mwaba mwagire kuganira, hamira ahanshonga egyo yenyini eyabareta omukuganira.

3. Gira obuteeka/ okutebekana ahabimurikuza kuganiraho;

Nikibaasa kubaho orurimi nirwesiba ahashaha yokugamba ekyorikwenda. Yetebekanise hakiriyo obwire omubyorikwenda kugamba.

4. Manya enshonga kandi oyetebeekanise

Kworabe nohurira oremesiibwe, gyezaho okyendeze ebirikukuteganisa kikuyambe kuhayo okushaba kwawe.

Kuwakuba oyine ekyorikwenda ahamukundwa wawe (nkokuhindura ahamitwarizeye) otakakireta nkenshobi ahariwe, kureka kireete nkorikushaba ekintu kitsya.

5. Hikira ahanshoonga kandi oshobororegye

Oshemerire kuba wakyetegyerize ingu tihariho omuntu nomwe orikubasa kumanya ebyetaago byawe burikeire. Waba oyine ekyorikwenda kishabe kurungi kukira okugira oti “ninyenda ompurikize” gyezaho kugamba oti, “kuwakugira obwire bwokuganiira nanye twaheza kurya kyakiro” neinga, “kikabeire kirungi kuwakunkwata omungaro obwo turikugyenda hamwe aheru”.

6. Kyendeeza ahabigaambo birikugayisa;

Reka kuhakanisa nariishi kucwera mugyenzi wawe omushango. Omuringo oguhikire nokutandika na’Ninshaba…………, neinga nkabaire…………, kukira okugira oti “torikumanya kuntebekanisa kurungyi omukuterana omubyommubonano, gira oti, tindikuhisirizibwagye omumuringo ogu nkabaire ninkushaba ogyezeho eki.

7. Ba omuhurikiza murungi

Eki nikibasa kuba ekicweeka kigumire kukira byoona kwongyera ahakurinda orurimi rwawe. Taho omutima ahaki mutaahi wawe arikugamba. Omuhanda gumwe gwokworeka ingu nokuratira ebimutaahi wawe arikugamba nokuguma nobigarukamu.
8. Gambisa omubiri gwawe

Waaba nogaamba ebigaambo oyijukye ingu omubiri gwawe nigworeka kihango ahabitekyerezo byawe namunonga okushasha kwawe, nari ekiniga.

Gyezaho okuguma ocureire kandi otebekaine, kandi ogume omuhangire amaisho, kwaata ahamukundwa wawe kumworeka ingu oyetekatekire kugira ekiwakoraho.

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